June 2025
Taking a Break Isn’t Offensive Unless You’re Exhausted Too
If this is your first time reading my blog, my mother died on Christmas Day 2024. In early 2025 I went back to Montreal to take care of her estate and sell her house. I stayed in Montreal for close to three months. My blog posts are inspired by that time I stayed in Montreal. […]
The Sacred Art of Letting Go: When Friendships Fade
There exists a unique kind of heartbreak that arrives when a friendship ends quietly, not with the dramatic flourish of a slammed door or the cathartic release of spoken truths, but with the gentle erosion of silence. No final conversation marks the boundary between what was and what is no longer. Instead, there is only […]
When Inheritance Isn’t Just Money: On Envy, Shame, and the Unseen Cost of Being Chosen in Familial Dynamics
A reflection on the complex emotions that arise when we receive what others never had. There exists a precise moment in grief when the entire landscape shifts, and you realize that sorrow has metamorphosed into something altogether different. It doesn’t arrive during the funeral or after the eulogy. Instead, it comes later, in a quiet […]
The Invisible Drain: Why We Keep Choosing Unsupportive Friends (And How to Stop)
Have you ever walked away from a friend’s text feeling… heavier? Like something was quietly pulled from you that you can’t quite name? The Quiet Recognition: When Friendships Reveal Our Deepest Patterns There’s something profoundly unsettling about scrolling through your phone and feeling that small knot form in your stomach when a particular name appears. […]
The Healing Technology That Science Can’t Explain But People Can’t Stop Trying”
I never imagined I would find myself quietly sitting in a room surrounded by glowing computer screens, trusting that invisible energy could help ease the pain I had grown used to carrying. But something changes with age. Pain becomes a quiet companion. It lingers. It resists explanation. It becomes something you manage, not something you […]
The Inheritance Paradox: Why Being Chosen Can Make Others Feel Forgotten
A death in the family, and naturally, the subject of inheritance comes up.You notice a subtle shift in your friend’s face. Their smile tightens. The air between you changes, just slightly – but enough for you to feel it. And then you wonder why the topic even surfaced. But it did. And it was them […]